2. A Lack Of Recognition. Not every workplace rewards its employees for efforts and good work. It can be why you develop negative feelings for the job and say I hate my job . Of course, a person who devotes their time and mind to do the best work deserves a reward. But many firms do not think about this at all. It’s boring and I am not motivated, It pays damn well. Especially in these times the money is very welcomed. I spend a lot of time crying from the regret of leaving my job and getting in my head about how I have ruined my chances of ever going back to it. Help. Going back or staying aren't your only two options.